| Location | Ballymoney County Antrim |
| Age | 78 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 17/08/1929 |
| Date of Death | 31/08/2007 |
| Visitors | 4,124 since 25/10/2007 |
| Creator |
PLEASE READ......
My heartfelt thanks to all my GTS friends who have been lighting candles for dad it means so much
to me especially when i cannot be here. Life is really tough for me right now with different
problems but it is nice to know daddy,s candles are being lit by such wonderful people
THANKYOU EVERYONE
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I have went back to my maiden name as i am now seperated
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Patsy Mc Aleese & Baby son Column
1929 2007
My dad died on the 31st August, 2007 from stomach cancer, an illness which, from being told he had
it to the day it took him lasted only 10weeks. Not a long time, thankfully for him, but for a man
who was never ill in all his life it was, and still is unbelievable for us the family left behind.
Married to mum (Maureen) over 50 years, had four of a family, 2 girls, 2 boys, my sister Anne,
brothers Charles and Patsy.
Daddy was the most wonderful strong proud man i have ever known, he was always there for me no
matter what and never looked for anything in return, but then he was like that with everyone who had
the good fortune to know and love him. He had a bit of a farm, kept sheep, and some hens, always
kept himself busy, mainly running after other people, my mum would give of regular about people
taking him for granted, he could never say no to anyone who needed his help, but that was my dad.
The day of his funeral proved that.
He died on the friday morning and we should have had his funeral on the sunday but we decided to
change that to the monday. All the shops in the vacinity closed as we passed by as a mark of respect
for him. The church was packed to capacity, not even standing room, lots of people had to stand
outside, and our church is a big church. The priest said he was a pillar of the community who would
be sorely missed, which made us proud through our pain, his funeral was one of the biggest ever seen
in our parish. We all knew he was a very popular and much loved man but even we were astounded and
very proud by the wonderful tributes and cards we received when he died.
I miss and love you so much daddy, life will never be
the same again. I,m so glad i got to nurse you your last few weeks, i didn,t want you to go but i
didn,t want to watch you suffer either. You and column look after us as i know you will, you never
got to spend much time with him he was only a baby when he died. Love you daddy. and Column xxxxx
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When Great Trees Fall
(Maya Angelou)
When great trees fall,
rocks on distant hills shudder,
lions hunker down
in tall grasses,
and even elephants
lumber after safety.
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When great trees fall
in forests,
small things recoil into silence,
their senses
eroded beyond fear.
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When great souls die,
the air around us becomes
light, rare, sterile.
We breathe, briefly.
Our eyes, briefly,
see with
a hurtful clarity.
Our memory, suddenly sharpened,
examines,
gnaws on kind words
unsaid,
promised walks
never taken.
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Great souls die and
our reality, bound to
them, takes leave of us.
Our souls,
dependent upon their
nurture,
now shrink, wizened.
Our minds, formed
and informed by their
radiance,
fall away.
We are not so much maddened
as reduced to the unutterable ignorance
of dark, cold
caves.
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And when great souls die,
after a period peace blooms,
slowly and always
irregularly. Spaces fill
with a kind of
soothing electric vibration.
Our senses, restored, never
to be the same, whisper to us.
They existed. They existed.
We can be. Be and be
better. For they existed.
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♥ Peace My Heart ♥
♥ Peace, my heart, let the time for the parting be sweet.
♥ Let it not be a death but completeness.
♥ Let love melt into memory and pain into songs.
♥ Let the flight through the sky end in the folding of the wings over the nest.
♥ Let the last touch of your hands be gentle like the flower of the night.
♥ Stand still, O Beautiful End, for a moment, and say your last words in silence.
♥ I bow to you and hold up my lamp to light your way.
♥ Rabindranath Tagore, Bengali poet and philosopher ♥
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~ Snow ~
(Tessa Wilkinson)
The snow arrived unannounced.
It overwhelmed everything.
Changed the landscape so it was unrecognisable.
No one was prepared.
My grief feels like that snowstorm.
I feel changed, weighed down by the burden.
Trying to negotiate the new environment around me.
Not knowing where I am going.
Looking for familiar landmarks.
I feel cold and miserable and ill equipped in this new place unvisited before.
But I know in time the snow will melt and return the landscape to some semblance of normality.
And I know in time my grief will diminish and I will find my way forward again, back to a world that I recognise, changed, but familiar.
Spring does always come after winter and hope will return.
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♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ SWEET DREAMS ANGEL
LOVE ALWAYS TRACEY XXXXX
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ❤ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
Magic Of A Rainbow
I'll never see a rainbow
That I won't think of you;
Though days seem bleak and dreary
The sun is shining through.
A symbol of God's love fulfilled
In beauty, hope and grace;
A rainbow is a mirror
Reflecting His own face.
It arches o'er the mountains
With Heaven its domain;
Its brilliant colors wakened by
The grayness and the rain.
Now may I see the rainbows sent
To ease my broken heart,
Promising His healing love,
Shine through when teardrops start.
Miraculous, magical rainbows,
Blessing the sadness with peace;
God gently smiling and touching,
Bidding the sadness cease.
(Peggy Kociscin)
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8TH NOVEMBER 2009
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..`""-----""`....SENDING MY LOVE ON REMEMBERANCE
SUNDAY. X X
♥
LIFE IS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU.
THE SUN STILL RISES IN THE EAST
AND DARKNESS FALLS AT NIGHT
BUT NOTHING NOW SEEMS QUITE THE SAME
EACH DAY IS NOT SO BRIGHT
THE BIRDS STILL SING, THE FLOWERS GROW
THE BREEZE STILL WHISPERS, TOO
BUT IT WILL NEVER, EVER BE
THE SAME WORLD WITHOUT YOU
IT,S SO SAD THAT YOU HAD TO GO
YOUR LEAVING CAUSED SUCH PAIN
BUT YOU WERE VERY SPECIAL
AND EARTH,S LOSS IS HEAVEN,S GAIN.
LOVE TO YOU ALWAYS TRACEY XXXX
Where Peace Flows Like a River.
Together we will journey
To that land up in the sky
Where the flame does burn eternal
And the soul does never die.
Where the harps are gently playing
As a host of angels sing
Where the road is paved with diamonds
And the golden bells do ring.
Where the path is set before us
Shining brightly as the sun
We will see the face of Jesus
When our final race is run.
Where the peace flows like a river
Winding through the streets of gold
We will dine with priests and prophets
When the key to life, we hold.
Where the flame does burn eternal
In that sacred Promised Land
Where God holds the gift of freedom
In the cleft of His right hand.
Where we'll see the face of loved ones
Long before us, gone away
What a day of sweet rejoicing
When we meet again someday.
Where we'll gather at the river
In our home up in the sky
Where the peace flows like a fountain
And the soul does never die.
Author/Written By: Marilyn Ferguson
� 2004
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♥ From Water Bug to Dragonfly ♥
(Tessa Wilkinson)
The bottom of the pond is muddy and dark
There is fear of the unknown
There is loneliness as things change
There is the desperation of being left behind
Not knowing, not understanding
Watching and waiting
Then the journey comes
Up the stem
What waits beyond?
Sunlight
Freedom
Dancing together in joy with those who went before
And who will come after.
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1ST NOVEMBER 2009
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ALTHOUGH THE SPACE BETWEEN US
MEANS WERE MILES AND MILES APART
I'LL KEEP YOU CLOSE BESIDE ME
AND FOREVER IN MY HEART.
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SUNDAY BLESSINGS TODAY AND ALWAYS,
JUDE. X X
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